4 weeks ago on 22 July 2014 @ 10:00am
4 weeks ago on 22 July 2014 @ 9:54am 2 notes

In fact a mature person does not fall in love, he rises in love. The word ’fall’ is not right. Only immature people fall; they stumble and fall down in love. Somehow they were managing and standing. They cannot manage and they cannot stand – they find a woman and they are gone, they find a man and they are gone. They were always ready to fall on the ground and to creep. They don’t have the backbone, the spine; they don’t have that integrity to stand alone.

A mature person has the integrity to be alone. And when a mature person gives love, he gives without any strings attached to it: he simply gives. And when a mature person gives love, he feels grateful that you have accepted his love, not vice versa. He does not expect you to be thankful for it – no, not at all, he does not even need your thanks. He thanks you for accepting his love. And when two mature persons are in love, one of the greatest paradoxes of life happens, one of the most beautiful phenomena: they are together and yet tremendously alone; they are together so much so that they are almost one. But their oneness does not destroy their individuality, in fact, it enhances it: they become more individual.

Two mature persons in love help each other to become more free. There is no politics involved, no diplomacy, no effort to dominate. How can you dominate the person you love? Just think over it. Domination is a sort of hatred, anger, enmity. How can you think of dominating a person you love? You would love to see the person totally free, independent; you will give him more individuality. That’s why I call it the greatest paradox: they are together so much so that they are almost one, but still in that oneness they are individuals. Their individualities are not effaced – they have become more enhanced. The other has enriched them as far as their freedom is concerned.

Immature people falling in love destroy each other’s freedom, create a bondage, make a prison. Mature persons in love help each other to be free; they help each other to destroy all sorts of bondages. And when love flows with freedom there is beauty. When love flows with dependence there is ugliness.

~ Osho  (via thatkindofwoman)
» via  thatkindofwoman   (originally  psych-facts)
1 month ago on 25 June 2014 @ 12:47am 26,650 notes

😭❤️ #belatedbirthdaygift #mk #michaelkors #whyyyyyyy

1 month ago on 24 June 2014 @ 12:53am
» via  laniev   (originally  unstablefragments)
2 months ago on 1 June 2014 @ 3:44pm 26,985 notes

What lanes? Welcome to Manila.
#lanesdonotexist #traffic #rushhour #jksitslikethis247

2 months ago on 29 May 2014 @ 9:19am

Always thankful for our relationship - I appreciate how we took everything slow even from the very start. During the first couple of months of dating, we’d only see each other once every 3 weeks. We had our priorities straight; school, dance, family. We really liked each other, but didn’t want to just throw the words “i love you” around until we knew it was right. Didn’t even say those words until after a couple of months. He brought me to new places and finally learned how to cook haha. Those are just a fraction of the reasons why I love this man and how our relationship shaped throughout all these years. Why rush into things and try to do everything all at once in the beginning when we have a whole lifetime to experience new adventures together? Thank you for always being patient and understanding with a stubborn hardheaded girl like me. Just the absolute best ♥️ I miss you, see you in a week!

#happy44 #27th #imcominghome #goneforamonth #excusethecheese #dontusuallydothis

2 months ago on 28 May 2014 @ 10:25am

Island hopping, snorkelling, zipline, atv, banana boat and parasailing @ Boracay
Yup, go big or go home ♥️

2 months ago on 28 May 2014 @ 7:51am 1 note

In love with this place.
“Hot sun above my head, sand under my feet”

3 months ago on 14 May 2014 @ 8:32am